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Neither your family wealth, beyond a point, nor your intelligence will drive your happiness in life. There is a third element within you that will.

I have spoken endlessly in the past about our Unholy Trinity. Today, it is time to talk about what I call My Holy Trinity. Whereas the Unholy Trinity prevents you from thriving, this Holy Trinity, in particular, its third pillar, is what you should nurture and grow to have a joyful life.

From the time you were born, and from as recently as the time you woke up today, you will have experienced the benefits of increased knowledge and using your intelligence. Both short- and long-term, the duo of knowledge and intelligence are required for surviving and thriving. Both you and the institutions you interface with benefit from individual and collective knowledge. But what about wisdom? And what does “wisdom” actually mean?

The fact that you are reading this is a clear example of the fact that you have knowledge – of English, and knowledge of how to use the gadget in your hand. It shows that you have intelligence – to understand the sentences in this conversation and to navigate social media to get here. But what about wisdom? Does choosing to read this mean you have wisdom?

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Contents

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Background & Motivation [top]

The reasons for this conversation are not abstract; they come from a moment in my own life and from the uncomfortable realities shaping yours.

Big Bro Puru [top]

Thirty‑five years ago, my Chinese sister — then a young medical student on her way to becoming a surgeon — looked at me during one of our conversations and said, “Big bro P, you are so wise.” I took it as a mix of flattery and gratitude for some brotherly advice. Yet as an undergraduate who had barely stepped out of his parental home, the remark felt oddly out of place. There was a quiet dissonance in hearing the word wise applied to someone still accumulating knowledge and only beginning to learn how to use intelligence. After all, is not wisdom something we associate with those who have lived long, weathered much, and distilled experience into insight?

She would later go on to win Cambridge University’s top award for a medical student in surgery. I do not precisely remember what she had asked my opinion on that day, but in those pre‑internet, pre‑mobile‑phone years, context‑dependent advice came only from other humans — from conversations, intuition, and lived experience. If the refusal to think is evil, then accumulating knowledge without active, critical, and independent reflection is a failure of our human duty.

Technology & Economics [top]

Science has advanced, technology has accelerated, and human purchasing power has multiplied. But in this age of instant information and algorithmic answers, where do we truly stand with respect to knowledge, intelligence, and wisdom?

Opposing Forces – Pushing Back [top]

Even twins do not share the same desires or end goals. The people and institutions around you — family, friends, workplaces, communities — will gladly encourage you to expand your knowledge and sharpen your intelligence. But it is far less certain that they will celebrate you when you begin to grow your wisdom. Wisdom changes your choices, your priorities, and sometimes your direction — and not everyone benefits from that shift. And, in a recursive way, you will need wisdom to handle that.

Before we think about the opposing forces and pushing back, we ought to understand this Holy Trinity.

My Holy Trinity [top]

I define “My Holy Trinity” as: Knowledge, Intelligence, and Wisdom.

Knowledge is organized meaning; it is what you know.

Intelligence is the capacity to connect, infer, and adapt; it is how well you process what you know.

Wisdom is the applied, value-guided outcome; it is your judgment to apply understanding well.

Let us consider each of these and their relevance to a joyful long life.

Knowledge [top]

Your knowledge is organized meaning — the patterns, relationships, and understanding that emerge when you synthesize information. Within your Holy Trinity, it represents what you know, forming the foundational layer that gives your intelligence the structure and memory it needs to operate. While knowledge anchors your reasoning and judgment, its primary focus is on identifying what is true. Ultimately, your knowledge transforms external signals into an internal, consciously understood framework — the substrate upon which your higher mental faculties can build.

Excluding Data and Information [top]

Data and information sit outside your Holy Trinity because the model is intentionally human‑centric. It focuses on what you become, not on what a system contains. While data represents raw facts and information provides context, you can think of them as raw materials or ingredients rather than intrinsic qualities of your mind or character. Including them would blur the line between what is merely recorded and the active mental work of organizing meaning, making connections, and exercising judgment.

By centering on your knowledge, intelligence, and wisdom, the Holy Trinity highlights a living network of processing and values that is unique to your human experience.

Intelligence [top]

Your intelligence is your capacity to learn, reason, combine patterns, and adapt decisions. Within your Holy Trinity, it acts as the vital processing layer between your knowledge and your wisdom, giving your mind the ability to connect, infer, and adjust. While knowledge is what you know, intelligence is how well you process and connect what you know, giving your inner world structure, coherence, and memory.

Because intelligence is measurable, comparable, and trainable through technical performance and productivity, it becomes the primary focus of modern institutions and education systems. But its scope is fundamentally limited to capability and efficiency — it answers the question, “What can be done?” It does not carry the moral, value‑guided judgment required to answer “What should be done?” That responsibility belongs to wisdom.

Forms of Intelligence [top]

Beyond your general cognitive processing, your intelligence shows up in several specialized forms that shape how you function — and how the humans and institutions around you function as well. Collective intelligence is the capacity of a group, such as your corporation or your government, to solve complex problems that no individual like you could tackle alone, though it can ironically fall below the intelligence of the group’s smartest members because of bureaucracy or groupthink.

On a personal level, your spiritual intelligence represents a distinct, trainable capacity to derive meaning, purpose, and values from your lived experiences and existential questions. What is also important is your metacognition — your ability to think about your own thinking — and emotional intelligence, which involves regulating your emotions and navigating social dynamics with perceptiveness.

These various forms of intelligence give you the “how” of your human capability. But they still rely on your governing faculty of wisdom to ensure that their application serves a direction that is worthwhile — and ideally, a common good.

Wisdom [top]

Your wisdom is the applied, value‑guided outcome of your Holy Trinity — the judicious use of your knowledge and intelligence toward a common good. While your intelligence focuses on capability and asks, “What can I do?”, your wisdom provides the governing judgment to ask, “What should I do, for whom, and at what cost?” It becomes the final evaluative layer of your living mental network, determining which signals matter, which uses of knowledge are right, and whether the connections made by your intelligence are ethical, useful, and worthwhile.

Wisdom operates across a horizontal dimension — it is the outward expression of your internal values through responsible action, benefiting both you and the wider world. Ultimately, wisdom is the faculty that transforms you from a “capable performer” into an “independent judge” of purpose and value, ensuring that your knowledge and intelligence serve the deeper goal of human flourishing.

Components of Wisdom [top]

In contemporary research and psychology, your wisdom is understood as a multidimensional capacity — not a single trait, but a synthesis of several cognitive, reflective, emotional, and moral components working together. At its core lies epistemic and intellectual humility: your willingness to recognise the limits of your own knowledge, accept change, and revise your views when reality demands it. Equally essential is perspective‑taking and openness: your ability to understand other viewpoints charitably, consider broader contexts, and engage without defensiveness.

Your emotional and reflective capacities form the next layer: emotional regulation that prevents immediate feelings from hijacking judgment, and reflective self‑knowledge that allows you to examine your assumptions, your patterns, and the architecture of your own thinking. On the interpersonal and ethical plane, wisdom draws on empathy, compassion, prosocial motivation, and concern for the common good, ensuring that your cognitive abilities serve something larger than self‑enhancement.

Finally, your wisdom requires moral and practical discernment, long‑term systems thinking, and your ability to tolerate uncertainty and complexity when navigating life’s ill‑structured problems. All of these elements culminate in practical application — you converting inner ethical insight into consistent, compassionate, well‑judged action in the real world.

Why Your Wisdom Might Be Low [top]

There are forces at play that increase the probability that your wisdom or mine might be low. Some of the forces are not accidental — they are baked into the way modern society is designed. Others are naturally part of each of us. Becoming wise often means swimming against the current.

Education Systems [top]

Your wisdom tends to remain low in modern society because it is difficult to define, measure, and standardise within today’s systems. Unlike knowledge, which can be taught and examined, or intelligence, which can be measured through performance metrics, your wisdom reveals itself quietly — in moments when you know when not to act, or when you recognise the limits of your own understanding. As a result, educational and social institutions focus on countable rewards such as grades, qualifications, speed, and technical competence, rather than the slow, often invisible development of sound judgment.

Modern schools are highly effective at teaching facts but utterly fail at cultivating wisdom.

The Establishment [top]

From a structural standpoint, your wisdom is often inconvenient to the establishment. Many institutions — including corporations and governments — reward productivity, compliance, and short‑term performance. An intelligent person can solve problems efficiently within an existing system; a wise person is more likely to ask whether the objective is worthwhile, who bears the cost, and what the long‑term consequences might be. Because wisdom turns you from a “capable performer” into an “independent judge” of the systems you inhabit, bureaucracies often find it easier to manage a workforce that is technically skilled but insufficiently reflective.

History & Linguistics [top]

A historical and linguistic rollover also contributes to the scarcity of wisdom. In the pre‑industrial past, information was scarce, so anyone with more knowledge was often perceived as wise — the classic “one‑eyed man in the land of the blind” effect. Today, although information is abundant, many people still use the terms smart, intelligent, and wise interchangeably, failing to recognise that possessing knowledge is not the same as knowing how to use it well. This confusion leads many individuals to focus on accumulating facts rather than cultivating the judicious application of those facts.

Think about all those around you who continue to incorrectly label the sickcare industry as healthcare!

The Unholy Trinity [top]

Finally, your wisdom is often suppressed by what I call the Unholy Trinity of human survival instincts: your drive to avoid pain, seek pleasure, and conserve energy. True wisdom is a trainable developmental capacity that requires the pain of honest reflection, the effort of intellectual humility, and the willingness to tolerate uncertainty and complexity. In a modern world built for convenience, you may find yourself delegating the very processes through which wisdom is formed to external tools or experts — bypassing the necessary struggle with consequences and responsibility that cultivates deep judgment.

The less we move towards mastering ourselves, the more we move towards being slaves to others.

Wisdom in Plants [top]

Plants demonstrably exhibit knowledge and intelligence through environmental sensing, associative learning, and complex communication via chemical signals and what are called mycorrhizal networks. Whether these biological capacities constitute wisdom depends on the definition we use: while plants lack conscious deliberation or moral agency, they exhibit a form of distributed wisdom through the long-term optimization of forest ecosystems. Forests function as resilient superorganisms where large “mother trees“ sustainably manage resources, pumping nutrients to struggling saplings and balancing collective needs over centuries to maintain system stability. Ultimately, plants and forests provide a powerful biological metaphor for the Holy Trinity, where knowledge is stored information, intelligence is adaptive processing, and wisdom is the emergent capacity for long-term, collective flourishing.

Wisdom in Animals [top]

Wisdom in the animal kingdom manifests as a distributed biological capacity to navigate complexity and ensure long-term, collective flourishing. In insects, this is observed through swarm intelligence, where simple local interactions lead to sophisticated “democratic” decision-making and resilient resource management within colonies. While reptiles demonstrate limited wisdom distinct from instinct, they exhibit a form of it through sophisticated energy conservation and parental care that balances immediate risks against the long-term survival of offspring. Birds display wisdom through collective memory and strategic behaviours; for instance, corvids (like crows) practice strategic deception, which suggests an advanced understanding of the knowledge states of others. In mammals, wisdom is most evident in moral behaviours—such as empathy, fairness, and altruism—and the cultural transmission of survival knowledge by elders, such as elephant matriarchs and orca (dolphin) grandmothers who lead their groups through crises based on decades of experience. Ultimately, these natural phenomena suggest that wisdom is not a uniquely human intellectual achievement but an emergent property (a property of a collection rather than an individual) of any system that successfully integrates experience over time to navigate uncertainty and support life.

vs Humankind [top]

I wrestled with the following thought:

The collective knowledge of humans is higher than that of all plants and all other animals put together. The collective intelligence of humans is higher than that of all plants and all other animals put together. However, relative to that, the collective wisdom of humans is poor relative to the collective wisdom of all plants and animals.

This is the conclusion I reached:

The idea is provocative and partly true. Human collective knowledge and intelligence are unparalleled — we have accumulated more information, built more complex technologies, and solved more difficult problems than any other species. Yet our collective wisdom appears poor relative to the ecological wisdom embedded in nature. Ecosystems have maintained balance for millions of years; human civilisation is undermining its own life‑support systems within centuries. We optimise for short‑term growth while nature optimises for long‑term sustainability. We extract without reciprocating; nature gives and receives in cycles.

However, the comparison has limits. Nature’s “wisdom” is the result of blind evolutionary processes, not conscious judgment. And human wisdom may be emerging rather than absent — we are developing sustainability science, conservation movements, and ecological awareness. The question is whether this emerging wisdom will mature fast enough to prevent catastrophic collapse.

So, the thought I wrestled with challenges us to reconsider what wisdom truly means: not just intelligence applied to human problems, but intelligence applied to living within ecological limits, respecting interdependence, and prioritising long‑term flourishing over short‑term gain. In that sense, we may indeed have much to learn from the collective wisdom of the natural world we are destroying.

Why Focus on Wisdom? [top]

Why do I ask that you consciously focus on wisdom?  Let us think about it from a personal and then a wider perspective.

Your Happiness [top]

There are at least 4 connected reasons why you cannot assume away the need to focus on wisdom for personal gain.

Intelligence does NOT drive Happiness [top]

Research shows that your wisdom is a far stronger predictor of happiness and life satisfaction than your knowledge or intelligence. A study shows that across 50 years of data and more than 30,000 people, intelligence shows virtually no correlation with happiness (r ≈ –0.06). In contrast, wise reasoning consistently predicts higher life satisfaction, better relationships, less depression, and even greater longevity — associations that hold even when controlling for income, verbal ability, and personality.

Family Wealth Becoming Ineffective [top]

Your initial family wealth matters only up to a point, and its effects diminish quickly. Beyond basic security, it is relationships, meaning, and wisdom that matter far more than money or IQ. This makes intuitive sense: intelligence helps you solve problems with clear answers, but life’s most important challenges — relationships, meaning, mortality, uncertainty — require wisdom, not just cleverness. Knowledge gives you information; wisdom tells you what to do with it, when, how, and for whose benefit.

If you are wise, you will not chase money thinking that it can compensate for not trying to be wiser.

Do you remember what I said about the Zero Billionaire? When the choice is between money and wisdom, which should you choose?

You THINK you NEED MORE Money [top]

We should start with my reminder of the definition of a rich man. He is not someone who has a lot of money, but someone who does not need more money.

If you think you need more money, for the sake of argument, let us assume that you have correctly assessed that you do need more money. To satisfy this external need, I am not suggesting that you do not think about an honest alternative path to the one you are on if you believe it will earn you that additional external wealth. However, consider this. Your external wealth growth is a function of your effort. But not just your effort. To a large extent, it also depends on factors outside your control. If your joy from life can be enhanced significantly by you doing things that are within your locus of control, should you not invest some of your Healthy Time in them?

Regarding the things that are within your locus of control, I have had almost 200 conversations with you so far about actions in the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual wealth buckets. Separate from those, but with connections to them, is the Holy Trinity. If you do have control over your actions that will increase your wisdom to, in turn, significantly increase your happiness, why would you not do them? [circle back to Why Your Wisdom Might Be Low]

If you are very rich, then you are foolish if you think that simply more wealth will make you happier. If you are poor, you are also foolish if you do not consciously increase your wisdom through actions under your control unrelated to money!

If M hours of labour a day make you $M dollars for possible future happiness but W minutes a day on Wisdom almost guarantee you future happiness, should you not be doing that W, regardless of the Healthy Time you invest for income in the external wealth bucket?

Focus on earning a large ROTI. Chasing money should not squeeze out curating wisdom. Focus on your locus of control.

Bake that Large ROTI [top]

Your Healthy Time is the true common currency that bridges internal and external wealth. While intelligence can optimize a process (e.g., helping someone run a gruelling 100km ultra-marathon), it is wisdom that steps back to look at the portfolio of life. Wisdom asks if that large-volume effort is actually destroying your sleep, your family relationships, and your longevity. Wisdom ensures you are earning a large ROTI by focusing on the roots of your wellness rather than obsessing over narrow, flashy leaves.

Beyond Just You [top]

Your wisdom matters profoundly to the world around you because it operates as a horizontal force — the dimension that governs how you meet other people through empathy, fairness, communication, and shared responsibility. While your intelligence sharpens capability and efficiency, your wisdom directs those capabilities toward ethical, humane, and genuinely beneficial ends. It is your wisdom that asks the uncomfortable questions: who bears the cost of my choices, who is excluded, does the objective I am pursuing truly serve human flourishing?

Instead of chasing short‑term or self‑serving metrics, you begin to prioritize the common good. You develop the moral discernment to know when to act, when to pause, and when restraint is the wiser path. And as your inner alignment expresses itself outwardly, your judgment produces public benefits: it exposes inequality, reduces intergroup hostility, softens polarization, and strengthens collective trust, cooperation, and conflict resolution.

Ultimately, your wisdom is the mechanism that converts inner moral clarity into outwardly responsible action — creating a more stable, civil, and sustainable environment for everyone you touch.

Your Potential to Increase… [top]

Having established a reason for you to increase your wisdom, we can consider an action plan to do so. Before we lay that out, let us think about your potential to increase the 3 parts of your Holy Trinity.

Your Potential to Increase Knowledge [top]

You have the potential to increase your knowledge with virtually no upper limit, provided you take the actions to do so. The primary rate‑limiting factors are simply the time and effort you are willing to dedicate. Because you live in an era of internet search engines, raw knowledge is rarely a barrier to your achievement; almost anything you need to know to improve in any area of interest is accessible at zero cost.

Furthermore, your knowledge is fundamentally cumulative — it builds directly on what you already know. You cannot learn to read without first knowing the alphabet; you cannot understand calculus without first grasping arithmetic. This cumulative structure makes your potential for continuous intellectual growth vast.

Your Potential to Increase Intelligence [top]

Your potential to increase your intelligence is far more constrained by biology than your ability to expand your knowledge. Intelligence has a substantial genetic component, with twin and family studies showing that genetic differences account for roughly 50% of the variation in intelligence (with estimates ranging from 40% to 80% depending on age and methodology). While some forms of intelligence are relatively fixed at birth, other aspects can be improved to some extent through nurture, environmental experiences, and deliberate effort.

Ultimately, your intelligence can be trained, measured, and compared through technical performance — but it still operates within innate genetic boundaries.

Your Potential to Increase Wisdom [top]

Unlike your knowledge, which has no real upper limit, and your intelligence, which is strongly bounded by genetics, your potential to increase wisdom sits in a trainable middle ground. Wisdom is a trainable capacity you can deliberately cultivate — but it cannot be “downloaded,” memorised, or taught the way an academic syllabus can.

Different components of your wisdom improve at different rates. Some capacities — such as intellectual humility and perspective‑taking — have high potential for rapid improvement, especially when you use simple cognitive techniques like viewing interpersonal conflicts from a third‑person perspective. Others, such as your tolerance of uncertainty, emotional regulation, and reflective self‑knowledge, show moderate to high potential, strengthening gradually as you learn to sit with complexity rather than escape it. Still others — compassion, prosocial concern, moral and practical discernment, long‑term systems thinking, and acting wisely under pressure — carry moderate potential, often developing slowly because they require repeated real‑world application rather than abstract understanding.

At the same time, your growth in wisdom is shaped by meaningful limits. Your underlying dispositions — personality, trauma, impulsivity — can constrain how consistently you act wisely. Wisdom is also deeply context‑dependent: you may reason wisely at work yet behave unwisely during a family argument. And even when you know what the wise action is, transferring that judgment into durable behaviour under emotional stress or temptation remains one of the hardest challenges.

Yet despite these limits, a dedicated approach — structured reflection, real responsibility, honest feedback, and time — can make you materially wiser than you are now, especially in the domains of life you choose to deliberately practice.

Increasing Wisdom [top]

If you understand now that it is possible to increase your wisdom and would like to, there are some prerequisites in advance of an action plan that you can execute.

Prerequisites [top]

Before you execute any action plan to grow your wisdom, you must first build strong internal foundations. This starts with genuine intrinsic motivation — the desire to grow because it is right, not because you want to appear wise or soothe your ego. It must be paired with an active ethical orientation toward the common good, and with the intellectual humility required to recognise that your current understanding is limited, fallible, and open to change.

On a psychological and emotional level, you need a baseline of safety that allows you to engage in honest self‑reflection. This gives you the freedom to examine mistakes without shame and to receive feedback without becoming defensive. You also need enough emotional regulation to tolerate the discomfort of uncertainty, and the cognitive capacity to step back, evaluate complex situations, and charitably consider alternative perspectives. Do this while being mindful of transitionary reasons becoming invalid permanent excuses.

Finally, you must allocate the time and resources for regular, daily reflective practice over months or years, accepting that wisdom is a slowly trainable capacity rather than a quick fix. This means setting specific, process‑based objectives — such as pausing before reacting defensively to criticism — instead of chasing perfection. And it requires the willingness to translate your inner insights into real‑world conduct, where wisdom ultimately proves itself. Through all of this, you have to remain Purunoid, a healthy level of fear so that you do not lose focus.

How you do one thing is how you do everything. [Existence of your Internal Culture]

Having read that, you are probably thinking, “That set of prerequisites sounds more like an action plan itself.  How is it different from an action plan to increase wisdom?”

You are right to notice the overlap. The distinction is subtle but important: readiness prerequisites are about capacity and conditions; an action plan is about specific practices and behaviours.

The distinction matters because attempting an action plan without adequate readiness often leads to frustration, superficiality or abandonment. Conversely, focusing only on readiness without action leads to endless preparation without growth. The wisest approach is to assess readiness, address critical gaps, then begin a modest action plan that itself continues to build the prerequisites over time. [Close The Implementation Gaps in your life.]

Action Plan [top]

I plan to dedicate a future conversation solely to actionable plans for you to increase your wisdom in a realistic, integrated, and sustainable way – to grow wiser week by week. Until then, you can build a deliberate practice for cultivating wisdom through small, repeatable actions rather than heroic effort: ten minutes of third‑person journaling each day to sharpen humility and perspective‑taking, brief mindful pauses to regulate emotion, one act of appreciation to keep your orientation outward, a weekly cycle of perspective‑taking, service, and review to turn reflection into conduct, a monthly rhythm of honest feedback and challenging reading to expose blind spots, and a quarterly retreat to assess long‑term patterns. You track simple indicators, adapt when needed, resume without self‑criticism, and focus on continuity over perfection.

Failing to prepare is preparing to fail. Want to start today?

Future Topics [top]

As we wrap up this exploration of My Holy Trinity, remember that this is only the beginning of a much larger journey toward self-mastery and independent judgment. In our future conversations, we will push the boundaries of this framework even further to dissect how wisdom behaves when it collides with the messy realities of the modern world. We will explore the vertical depth of religion and spirituality and how wisdom differs from structured dogma, and how we can apply specific, value-guided judgment to our health and fitness so our food remains our medicine rather than letting medicines become our food. We will debate the limits of “smart” machines and whether artificial wisdom is truly possible, or if today’s Generative AI is merely a powerful cognitive amplifier that can never relieve us of our human moral responsibilities. We will address the intense friction of trying to grow your own wisdom when friends and family around you remain comfortably stuck, showing you how to maintain compassionate closeness with firm boundaries. Finally, we will step into our institutions to examine what it means to practice wisdom at the workplace when bureaucracies reward compliance over reflection, and how collective judgment operates as a public benefit within the chaotic arena of politics. Until then, stay inwardly focused, keep questioning your processes, and remember that the most critical battle you will ever fight is the one to master yourself.

Does Choosing to Read this Mean you are Wise? [top]

So, let us circle back to the question we started with: does choosing to read this mean you have wisdom?

The honest answer is: it is not automatically implied. Reading this article was merely an exercise of your knowledge and your intelligence. You had the knowledge to read the language, and the intelligence to navigate the social media algorithms to get here. But wisdom is never about what you passively consume; it is about what you actively implement. While your intelligence asks, “What did I just read?”, wisdom asks, “What will I now do differently?” The gap between knowing what is right and doing what is right is the ultimate test of our humanity. If you close this tab and return to mindless scrolling, this was simply an intellectual distraction. But if you take these words, shut down your screen, and actively choose to start your daily journal, pause before you react, and take control of your processes—then, and only then, does your choice to read this become an act of true wisdom.

Take-Home Message [top]

Your life will be shaped far more by your wisdom than by your wealth or intelligence. Knowledge gives you information and intelligence helps you process it, but wisdom is the value‑guided judgment that tells you what you should do, for whom, and at what cost. Research shows intelligence has almost no correlation with happiness, while wisdom predicts life satisfaction, stronger relationships, and even longevity. In your Holy Trinity, knowledge is virtually unlimited, intelligence is partly genetic and bounded, but wisdom is trainable and entirely within reach. Modern systems suppress it — schools reward facts, institutions reward compliance, and your instincts push you toward comfort rather than growth — yet wisdom can be cultivated through small daily practices: reflection, perspective‑taking, emotional regulation, and service to others. The bottom line is simple: your happiness will not come from your bank balance or your IQ, but from your ability to ask better questions, consider the common good, and act with judgment that serves both you and the world around you. Invest in wisdom — it is the only part of the Holy Trinity fully under your control.

Parting Message [top]

Take a deep breath and reflect on the simple question, “Do I want to be wiser?”

It is your smallest of habits that define who you are today and who you will be tomorrow. If everything you do is consistent with your core beliefs and desires, then a long and healthy life of joy is pretty much guaranteed to be yours. If you would like detailed guidance, you know how to reach me. If you found this useful, please do share it with others.

Puru

Dr Purnendu Nath spends his waking hours focusing on helping individuals and organizations reach their goals, to make the world a better place. He speaks, writes and advises on topics such as finance, investment management, discipline, education, self-improvement, exercise, nutrition, health and fitness, leadership and parenting.